How to unleash your inner explorer
It is important for us to continually awaken the explorer spirit to get the most out of life and achieve the greatest personal growth, writes Darren Smith.
The explorer spirit is something that lies within us. For some, it is top of mind, and for others, it can be pushed back below the surface due to other competing priorities or circumstances in our lives. It is important for us to continually awaken the explorer spirit to get the most out of life and achieve the greatest personal growth. A recent European holiday provided me with that opportunity.
One of the common goals that many Australians have is to travel. For many, it can reignite the explorer spirit. In most cases, it is not the destination itself but the experiences, people, the environment and how it makes us feel. Quite often, it gets us out of the routines that we live each day and we do and feel things outside of our normal comfort zones. This helps refresh our sense of personal direction and is a core element of our own financial wellness.
The ability to share the experiences and stories with others connected to us – be it friends, family or work colleagues – extends the spirit, and in some cases, it will inspire others to take action.
There is an excitement that goes with exploring, be it unchartered territory. When we travel, there are many differences – the journey there, food, people, currency, experiences, landscape and the environment. Exploring it with someone else or by yourself can make a big difference and expand your own thoughts as to what is possible. The new or unknown can come with risks, but they can be managed, and that is actually the source of some of the excitement.
My own recent trip to Europe, which included time in Budapest, Prague, Vienna and Switzerland, provided me with a great opportunity to push the boundaries and step out of my comfort zone. Normally I am a co-explorer with my wife of 29 years; however, this trip was a little different. With the first three days being spent alone, I got the opportunity to explore solo. In a country where the environment was significantly different in terms of currency, weather, language, culture and landscape, I had to make adjustments.
Having some landmarks or pillars whilst exploring was really important to me. They gave me the ability to check progress and correct when I was off track. As each hour passed, I became increasingly familiar with the currency and landmarks. This has relevance to managing our own finances in that it is critical that we correct when we are off track.
One landmark that stood out from day one was the Freedom statue monument on Gellért Hill in Budapest. It could be seen from miles away. On Gellért Hill about halfway up was another monument. They both stood out as guardians over the Danube, which flowed through the city of Budapest below.
With snow and sleet covering the hill tops, I made my way towards the hill and thought to myself, it would be great to just get to the first monument checkpoint as I could get some great pictures and perspectives of the city below. It was daunting at first as it was a steep descent and a lot of slippery steps. My inner voice in my head was telling me to take one step at a time and just keep moving forward.
Each step I took forward became a barrier to turning back. About halfway to the first mark, I was starting to question what I had started. The steps were incredibly slippery and my heart was starting to race, but I took the time to stop, look at the new perspective and take in the views at each progress point. It made me feel good as I progressed and I kept reinforcing to myself what a great thing to do and share with others. I didn’t want to be one of those who gave up midstream because it gets a little tough. I gave text updates to my wife along the way, which built in some extra accountability and incentive to keep going.
Yes, it was cold (minus 3 degrees Celsius to be exact) and slippery, but it was also filled with beautiful panoramic views of the city below. At the first checkpoint, it felt great and I made sure I spent 10 minutes soaking up the moment and took some great pictures. I was proud and could have stopped there and returned. However, that bigger statue on top of the hill was angelic looking and was stuck in my head becoming an anchor. Whilst there were choices, I really had none other than to continue.
The path continued to steepen and fill with more snow. The last 100 metres were so icy I had to hold the handrail to make sure I did not slide backwards. Again, one step at a time I got there. The 360 degree views from the top were unbelievable and well worth the effort.
This experience was so rewarding and reminded me of the need to continually challenge yourself because the rewards and personal growth can be so worthwhile.
When thinking about your own goals, particularly travel, dream big, not only about locations but about the experiences and how you want to spend your time. Keep testing what would make it most memorable.
Achieving great financial wellness comes from awakening our explorer spirit and from understanding our personal why and what is important. The key to this is pushing boundaries and taking a little risk to understand what you really find enjoyable and rewarding.
One aspect this aligns with in our business is through our work with teams within workplaces around the various elements of financial wellness. The greatest reward comes from helping these individuals reignite their explorer spirit and truly understand what they value in life.
Darren Smith is the managing director of Financial Advice Matters.
Jerome Doraisamy is a senior writer for Lawyers Weekly and Wellness Daily at Momentum Media.
Before joining the team in early 2018, Jerome is admitted as a solicitor in New South Wales and, prior to joining the team in early 2018, he worked in both commercial and governmental legal roles and has worked as a public speaker and consultant to law firms, universities and high schools across the country and internationally. He is also the author of The Wellness Doctrines self-help book series and is an adjunct lecturer at The University of Western Australia.
Jerome graduated from the University of Technology, Sydney with a Bachelor of Laws and Bachelor of Arts in Communication (Social Inquiry).
You can email Jerome at: [email protected]
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